I don’t think people realize how creepy it sounds to defend children being in an adult space.

Or talk about steering and guiding them? Like what is this, grooming 101? I really don’t care what minors wanna do in private but it’s not my job to educate them, guide them, or answer their questions. If you’re an adult and you think it is your job to teach kids about BDSM then go get CRB checked and appeal to your local high school about running a workshop (rolling my eyes bc Fucklord Sub Trainer III’s face has just lit up at this idea and he’s ironing his best leather pants in preparation). There are things outside the mechanics of ~sexual intercourse~  that are important to teach young people. BDSM is not one of those things. 

I’m sure a lot of people, me included, had an interest in freaky deaky things before they turned 18. That’s fine. If you’re under 18 and you’re reading this then (you’re a jerk for being on my blog in the first place but) please know that the reason we don’t want adults to ‘educate’ and ‘guide’ you is because not every adult’s intention is good. And just because they are an adult with good intentions, that doesn’t mean that the information they’re giving you isn’t actually really harmful. Adulting doesn’t necessarily equal good advicing. Actually, a lot of adults are really dumb and have terrible ideas. Basically, what i’m trying to say is don’t listen to adults!! If you’re curious then skulk around the internet and do your own research without actively engaging with adults (and please respect people who make it clear that they don’t consent to having minors in their space. Ignoring boundaries is gross, I don’t care how old you are). 

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